I am a Casanova

You and I both know the word “Casanova” doesn’t usually mean devotion. It’s a word people whisper with a smirk — seduction, conquest, fleeting romance.

When I first came across it as a description of my energy, I laughed. Because that’s not me.

For me, being a Casanova has never meant conquest. It means devotion — the kind that dissolves distance until only trust and closeness remain.

You and I both hate the kind of love that’s shallow, fleeting, transactional. We crave something deeper.

That’s what this energy is about. It’s devotion. It’s the pull toward intimacy, the instinct to dissolve walls between two people until only trust remains.

And there is only one person I want that intimacy with:

• my wife.

I am her Casanova.

But here’s the thing:

• this gift doesn’t stop at my marriage.

You and I both know the most meaningful work happens when barriers fall. When we’re not performing for each other, but when we’re open enough to be real.

That’s the same space I create with my clients as a trainer — an environment where trust is stronger than fear, where honesty replaces pretense, and where true growth can happen.

In the language of Human Design, this comes from my Personality Earth — the grounding theme of who I am. Mine is Gate 59.5: the gift of dissolving barriers, of turning attraction into devotion, and of creating intimacy that leads to transformation.

So yes, I am a Casanova.

Not because I seduce.

But because I help people step closer — to themselves, to others, to the truth of who they really are.