First, Know Yourself — Or You’re Flying Blind As a Parent

You wouldn’t drive at night with your headlights off. no?
Yet most parents do that every day—raising children without knowing the energetic blueprint that silently governs their kids’ behavior, needs, and decision-making.
The crash isn’t just emotional.
It’s the erosion of self-trust in your child.
I know this, not just because I’ve studied the mechanics…
But because I’ve seen it play out—both in my clients' homes and in my own.

Your child isn’t “difficult.” They’re operating by a design you haven’t seen yet.

What really happens when we parent without understanding the Human Design Type:

• Ask a Generator to initiate constantly? Their Gut (Sacral) gets silenced. They talk a big game but quit before the game even starts. That’s not laziness. That’s misalignment.
• Treat a Projector like a Generator? You praise them for pushing harder, staying up late, doing more—and they grow up equating love with performance, not presence.
• Push an Emotional Authority to make a decision “now”? You train them to override their own emotional truth. That becomes teenage chaos… adult regret.
• Expect a Manifestor to explain every move before they act? You don’t teach them transparency—you teach them to hide.

This isn’t parenting “style.”
This is mechanics.
Energetic. Observable. Repeatable.
And it changes everything when you learn to work with it—not against it.

The Proof? It’s Written In My Home’s Energy

I’m a 5/1 Emotional Generator. Single Definition.
This system transformed how I connect with my own family.
Is our home perfect? Far from it.
But it’s truer.
There’s more satisfaction in the room.
More permission to be real.
More trust in what we feel.

Here’s What To Do This Week (Simple. Not always easy.)
Know your child’s Type

Change how you ask questions

Generator: “Do you want the red Tshirt?” (listen for uh-huh / uh-uh)
Manifestor: “Let me know before you head out.”
Projector: “Want to help me figure this out?”
Reflector: “Let’s talk again after the weekend—and see how home feels.”

Protect their sleep
Projectors & Reflectors wind down early.
Generators sleep best when satisfied.
Emotional kids need to sleep on decisions.
Model your own alignment
They don’t do what you say.
They become what you are.

The Magnetic Truth
Your child isn’t broken. They’re brilliantly built.
But without their Human Design…
You’re parenting with your eyes closed—and calling it “love.”
Alignment isn’t ease. It’s clarity.
And that clarity is what gives your child the permission to trust themselves for life.

Not Yet. Know Yourself First.
You want to understand your child’s Design?
Not yet.
That’s step two.
Step one is you. YOU!
Because when you understand your Strategy and Authority…
You stop parenting from control—and start leading from coherence.
So before I send you your child’s chart…
Let’s begin with yours.

DM me “MY DESIGN” and I’ll send it personally.