Stop Pretending You're Fine: The Real Cost of Bottling It Up
Today’s post comes with a special guest—my Frenchie. It’s her birthday, and she insisted on making an appearance.
Alexandru Mitu
Have you ever worked so hard on something… only to realise you were building it the wrong way?
Kayaking on Lake Vierwaldstättersee.
How do you know if you’re sure — or if it’s just an impulse?
Discover how Human Design Psychology helps you tell impulse from true authority. As a Generator with Emotional Authority, I share how clarity grows with time. Learn and practice in Zug, Zürich, and Luzern to align energy and decisions with purpose.
If you’re stuck, work harder. Push through. Prove your worth.
Feeling stuck isn’t failure—it’s feedback. You’re not broken. You’ve just been trying to shift gears that aren’t yours to shift. When you learn how your energy really works, everything changes. That’s what the Immersion HD Workshop is all about. Ready to move differently?
Get Over It: Your body knows. Your mind just keeps getting in the way.
For years, I muted emotions to “fit in.” The truth? I wasn’t built to be stoic—I was built to feel. When I stopped fighting that, everything softened. Your body is not the enemy. It’s your compass.
You Don’t Have to Fight Someone Else’s War
When the war in Ukraine began, my days filled with smoke. Not real smoke — but the kind that comes from endless scrolling. Telegram. LinkedIn. News alerts that stung like metal in my mouth. Coffee tasted flat. Sleep slipped away. My jaw clenched until it ached. At the office I shared
Have you ever felt like everyone else got the manual for life—and somehow you missed it?
We’re told life is about having a plan. But not everyone’s clarity comes from knowing. For some, direction is fluid — it shifts through people, places, and timing. You’re not lost. You’re built to find yourself in connection, not in control.
They told me: “If you’re stuck, work harder. Push through. Prove your worth.”
Feeling stuck isn’t failure—it’s feedback. You’re not broken. You’ve just been trying to shift gears that aren’t yours to shift. When you learn how your energy really works, everything changes. That’s what the Immersion HD Workshop is all about. Ready to move differently?
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The Pain of Being Invisible at Work (and what it taught me).
I chased recognition until my body forced me to stop. MS was the wake-up call: frustration isn’t failure—it’s a compass guiding us back to who we really are.
Another Friday, Another Crown — Long Live the Drama Queen
The wisdom of my undefined Throat Center (in Human Design) comes with a paradox: confront your fears.
Warning: My Energy Has Been Known to Trigger Unexplained Giggles
People don’t react to you. They react to their unresolved sh*t. Your emotional presence just exposes it. Don’t shrink to make them comfortable. It’s their system, not your problem.
“I’ve made so many mistakes by talking too much.”
At a Lake Zurich party, I noticed also frustration. Human Design shows it’s not failure but a signal: the mind leading instead of the body.