Another Friday, Another Crown — Long Live the Drama Queen

Last Friday, the ritual repeated itself.

Ninety minutes of football: lungs burning, sweat stinging, grown adults flinging themselves across the field like caffeinated kids. And then, the sacred Third Half — the brewery, the banter, and the infamous voting.

The results? Brutal.

Save of the night — not me.
Goal of the night — nope.
Greedy bastard — minus one.
Drama Queen? Me. Again. Second time this year.
Minus two. And I wasn’t even there.

I read the WhatsApp results the next morning.
At first, I laughed.
Then came the confusion.
Then nervousness… Am I becoming a joke?
Then the spiral: Maybe I shouldn’t go back. Maybe I talk too much. Maybe I should just shut up and play.

That’s the weight of being voted “Drama Queen.”
It stirs pride - 15%… and shame - 85%.
And something deeper — the ache of being seen just enough to be mocked, but not enough to be understood.

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But here’s the thing:

I express.

I call out offsides like I’m on Broadway.
I gasp when I missed passes you'd think someone just deleted my Spotify account.
My voice moves. Even when I don’t try.

And for a long time, I thought that was the problem.

I have an undefined Throat Center (in Human Design) — which means I don’t control when my voice makes impact and it does't produce impact consistently… but when it does, people remember it. Even when I’m not in the room.

That’s the paradox:
When I force my voice to be heard — it vanishes.
But when it rises from my energy — when I’m emotionally alive — it lands. It lingers.

This isn’t about football.
It’s about leadership. Presence. Truth.

Most people fall into two traps:

• Mute themselves, afraid of being “too much.”
• Or force their voice, afraid of being invisible.

But power lives in discernment — in knowing when your voice is truly ready to be received.
It lives in trusting that when your energy says “yes,” your words will carry weight.

That’s where your magic lives:

In the awkwardness.

In the impact.

In the risk of being misunderstood.

In the joy of being felt.

So yes — I’ll wear the Drama Queen crown again.

Not because I want the title.
But because I’d rather be “too much” than live muted.

And this? This is what I deliver.

Helping leaders stop performing for recognition — and start discovering the voice others can trust.

Because voice is not about volume.
It’s about resonance.

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If you’re tired of holding back, tired of wondering whether your voice is “too loud” or “not enough” — then you belong in my Immersion Workshop Program.

This isn’t theory.
This is a space where you’ll practice your voice in real time.
Where you’ll discover how to trust your energy, speak from emotional clarity, and lead with presence that leaves a mark.

• Check my page: here.
• Don’t just scroll — step in.
• Because life isn’t waiting for you to whisper.

It’s waiting for you to resonate.